I’ve read a lot of thoughts about this lately. Are you an introvert or are you an extrovert?
I am an introvert. See one of the things about introverts is that they know they are introverts. Extroverts tend to want to belong to everything so they typically say they fit into both categories. An introvert just knows.
I once went to this party… actually the truth is a TRIED to go to this party where I only knew a couple people. It nearly killed me to think of getting out the car and walking into a stranger’s home. I drove around the block three times, parked for 10 minutes before I finally gave up and went home. I was so mad at myself for not having the nerve to go inside.
Party atmospheres drain me. I prefer a small group of friends. The kicker here is how do I make friends? Get an extrovert friend who takes you along.
I had the best group of friends in Idaho. We played cards almost every week. Even they said that they thought they would never get me out of my shell.
One day we were playing a game of Cranium, I think. I had to get my partner to understand my clue by humming “Wild Thing”. It is harder than it sounds by the way. I bust up laughing! The harder I tried to get it across, the harder I laughed! It was so darn funny! So the song “Wild Thing” became a running joke between us all.
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